Life drivers

Talked to Uncle Hoà at the dinner and got somethings useful.

There are four life drivers: Health, Money, Knowledge and Relationship. These four factors combine together will create the Power. "What is the Power?", he asked, and here is my answer: "Power is the ability to do whatever we want, the ability to make ppl do whatever we order." Nearly 100% right. His definition is: "Power is the ability to make something, or someone change accordingly to our will".

Keep these forces balanced is the art and the aim of one's life. However, the concept of "balance" depends on each person's standards, ambition and point of view. To someone, Money is 40%, the other gets 20% for each. To another, each may has 25%. To someone else, Health may be the most important that takes 50% of the whole pie, etc.

At each period of time, one of four will take the highest attention and this factor later may be transfered to other factors. Relationship or Knowledge may become Money, then in turn Money could bring back the Health. In my case, for example, the Relationship was passed to Knowledge - in the term of Experience (although it was an unforgetable bitter experience).
Yes, really. I lost a relationship, but I got back a lesson about Love and Belief.

People get the Power when they can drive these elements of life effectively and efficiently. If we lost the control on any one factor, it will drive ourselves. Who feels lacking of money will try to earn as much as possible at any price. Who is in permanent sickness situation has to spend a lot of money for health care. Who has no realtionship will live as if being on an isolated island. And, the one without knowledge hardly do anything.

It is a non-stopped progress to improve the capabilitties of each person. For Health: do the practice and take care of it when it is still there. For Money: work smartly, not by doing everything but knowing where to invest in. For Relationship: need to build effectively. For Knowledge: learn.

Actually there is the fifth driver: The Power of God. Sometimes things happen out of your will. That may be the bad luck or the good luck. It comes accidentally and unpredictable. Usually it makes the balance among four drivers become unbalanced. However, it also makes your life more lively and interesting in some ways. Do not blame God's Power when it turns you down. You will be paid for your suffer in another form. And do not be arrogant with the success it gifts you as that success did not come from your talent.

In short, try to maintain the balance of life drivers and develop yourself continuously in order to gain your Power.

(Rarely I write something similarly in Eng. Dont know what is the inner power encouraging me to write this piece. I felt I couldnt express the true meaning of these things in Vietnamese eventhough it is my mother language.
I wrote this quite easily, just in less than half an hour. So surprise to myself :) )